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11/1/2015 1 Comment

Self Compassion

So often I hear Clients say, " I would never talk to a friend like I talk to myself." maybe thats where the term you are your worst critic came from,? so badgering yourself all day is motivation, or so we are taught.  What if there is another way, what if we were compassionate towards ourselves as opposed to critical. When we are compassionate to loved ones or even strangers it seems to be uplifting and helpful for them, and yet we fail to see how this could be helpful for us. We go about our day on auto pilot, which is similar to how our thoughts work. We call this Automatic critical thoughts because think without noticing.  Most of the time we are not even fully aware of how critical we are of ourselves.  Step back and think about your inner dialogue, maybe even write some thoughts down. Think about how many times you have an automatic thought like, " I should have.... or, I am so Lazy, I can't get anything done"  Would you say that to a friend, " you are lazy, you dont get anything done ?" most likely, thats not very helpful or encouraging.  Its a good reminder to think about how your automatic self critical thoughts impact you on a day to day.  When you can't seem to understand why you are feeling down, or angry, take an inventory of your critical thoughts.  What you might notice is how critical thoughts impact your mood. Practicing self compassion is not something you can change over night.  Once I help my Clients to implement it, they are amazed at how much more effective they can be. 
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10/25/2022 01:03:34 am

Thanks for thiss blog post

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